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Originally Posted by European38  I love myself when other people think Im great and I hate myself when other people dislike me. |
Read this line a few times. What do you think of this idea? Doesn't it sound a bit silly to you? If so, why would you have such a silly idea in the first place? Try digging in your dirt a little for the answer... you want to find the root here!
Except when it comes to you! Why do all the other people in the world deserve better treatment from you than you yourself do? Aren't you the most important thing in your life?
(And don't you even DARE answer that last question with a 'no')
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I dont understand what my problem is, normally with someone who is not happy in themselves and who has low self esteem the list would be more bad qualities than good
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I don't think that is true. I think it is normal for people who are unhappy (with themselves) to have a long list of good qualities. The problem for them is that they feel that the list is never quite long enough.
But they are all wrong.
Even if their lists contained only one entry, they would be more than good enough.