Hey alicat,
I was wondering how your horror story ended. Sorry to hear that the conclusion has yet to be written. I admire your bravery in taking steps to remove yourself from him and by doing that, I think you have won already.
He is powerless now. You have him cornered like a scared little kitten and now he is begging for mercy.
But mercy you cannot give him. You need this to end. You need to be free of him. And you know that he needs this to end too, because he will never change while he is in a 'relationship' with you.
So perhaps you can draw strength from the idea that what further steps you need to take, to completely remove him from your life, are for the better of both of you. He may not see that right now, but if he is lucky then in time he will.
And then you'll both be happy.
Take care. Be strong. Good luck!
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