This has nothing to do with your friend. This is all about you.
You say that you are concerned about your friend, but how is that landing for you? You think she is mentally ill or angry or something? She is just sitting where she is sitting, and you are making it mean there is cause for concern. The concern might be: why am I so attached to sitting in a particular spot? Why is my thinking so rigid? Why do I want to rob my dear friend of her freedom to sit wherever she pleases? Why do I want to rob myself of my freedom to be spontaneous and present, and to see familiar scenes from a new vantage point?
And my question is: why watch tv when you go out, when you could be connecting with your friends?
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