Is it possible you have not let go of your fiance? I've been in a similar situation and it wasn't until I let go of the person who died, was I able to commit to another person. This happened to me a long time ago and I really can't remember how I did it.
I think a part of me was trying to get him back through other men and then once I had accepted that this was not possible, I saw men for who they were and was able to truly commit.
My guy is still in my heart, but it is a special place, which does not touch the love I have for others.
Love
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