The day you're comfortable with yourself, people will flock towards you. Because people appreciate authenticity above all things.
I know funny people who have "groupies." I also know intense, stoic types with groupies. In fact, there is no one type of person who is more interesting or popular with the masses.
My advice to you - be kind to yourself. Everyone feels insecure. Everyone wants reassurance from others. We all have bad days, as well as good days. Life is about up cycles and down cycles. What you're going through, so many people also feel the same way. But you're honest and self-aware enough to express it. That in itself is a great sign that you're on the fast-track to becoming an authentic, vulnerable, fascinating person.
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