Templanoid,
You don't sound like a boring or uninteresting person at all...
Maybe you have interests that are difficult to convey in conversation. Logical matters, mathematics, sciences, anything factual are hard to discuss in a casual, social setting.
However, anyone who is passionate about a subject makes it interesting and worthy of attention.It's not what you talk about or what you say, it's how you say things and how much you engage people.
Personally, I don't like jokesters, and loud, funny people.You can be humorous without being loud or telling jokes. A dark sense of humor is lovely especially coming from a quiet, shy person, because it has the effect of surprise.
It is very likely that you will find people to appreciate your shyness and reservei.Believe in attracting friends who will make the effort to talk to you and learn about all the interesting facts about you .They will be glad to know you better, and you will be glad that they searched you out.
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