Wow.. great discussion here. Well, my take is this. If you don't feel good mixing around with negative people, don't. There's so much thought about "being wrong to abandon others" but it probably aren't right making you do things that you dislike, isn't it?
If you don't love yourself enough to make yourself happy by avoiding such negative forces, you'll most likely feel so lousy about yourself that you can't do anything much to influence these negative people, as much as you would like to.
Love yourself and leave them for a while. Only when you're self loving and happy, can you really make a difference to help them.
Cheers,
Ellesse
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