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Originally Posted by Bobindy1  ... and now what? |
Take a bold look. Pick one area that you'd like to have a breakthrough in -- tidy environment or close loving marriage or leisure time. (or any other of what you call the "symptoms.")
Now, if you had that, what would you really have? And if you had that,
then what would you have? You're looking for the *way of being* underneath your apparent or symptomatic desires. What would you be being if you had that desire present in your life?
By "way of being" I'm talking about a condition you'd like to have present for yourself, rather than a goal or aim.
Start with any area, it doesn't matter which, and find a way of being, a quality or condition that if it were present, it would make a difference and inspire you. You don't have to commit to that way of being; you're just speculating.
Then, take a look and see if that way of being would also make a difference in the other "symptoms", too.
What comes up for you?