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Muzzinho · 01-03-2008, 07:50 PM

Hiya its Muzzinho again... I have a problem... What can I do when the people I live with are negative as well as ignorant and dont manifest the life they want to live.... I fell trapped somewhat by my parents who dont live or look after me and my siblings in a very informed way about the world and seem to reinforce the negative continuosly. I feel pushed into doing things I dont wanna do or listen to. I would like some recommendations and I can only be positive for so long and up to a limit and I feel as though the negativity is rubbing off on me which is unhealthy.

I think I heard somewhere that the 5 people closest to you is the person who you become.. so if you have parents telling to go out and get a "job" thats what you'll do. Where as if you're a talented singer and your parents tell "no dont get a job, youre talented go for it!" thats exactly what you'll do.

Another question which I would like help with is how far can I go on my own. I dont have enough support (in all areas of life) from anyone in particular person.... so what can I do in this situation?

Thanks everyone!

01-03-2008, 07:50 PM	#1 (permalink)
Muzzinho Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 57	What do you recommend? Hiya its Muzzinho again... I have a problem... What can I do when the people I live with are negative as well as ignorant and dont manifest the life they want to live.... I fell trapped somewhat by my parents who dont live or look after me and my siblings in a very informed way about the world and seem to reinforce the negative continuosly. I feel pushed into doing things I dont wanna do or listen to. I would like some recommendations and I can only be positive for so long and up to a limit and I feel as though the negativity is rubbing off on me which is unhealthy. I think I heard somewhere that the 5 people closest to you is the person who you become.. so if you have parents telling to go out and get a "job" thats what you'll do. Where as if you're a talented singer and your parents tell "no dont get a job, youre talented go for it!" thats exactly what you'll do. Another question which I would like help with is how far can I go on my own. I dont have enough support (in all areas of life) from anyone in particular person.... so what can I do in this situation? Thanks everyone!