Hi European38,
Jim has offered you such good advice but you remind me a little of myself and a mind set I was once in so thought I would put my penny's worth in.
I used to think everyone disliked me and were saying mean things to me all da time. and try as I may I could not stop these thoughts from happening by just trying to be less sensitive.
So I started working on the specifics. ie being ignored. I decided that I am fun and interesting and that everyone wants to say hello. I did a very basic thing like affirming this too myself and sure enough I started to bounce in rooms and everyone said hello.
(law of attraction principle is that my 'I am a fun person' vibration was very high so I attracted people who agreed with this and it became my reality from then on). Actually still to this day if I happen to notice that someone is ignoring me.. which is not very often as I am not looking for it at all.. but my first thought it now.. I wonder what is wrong with so and so maybe they are having a bad day!
haha I never assume it has anything to do with me!
I know it may seem overwhelming at the moment European38 by Jim hit the nail on the head when he said it is your perception of what is happening and it is mostly likely not as bad as you perceive it to be.
Try a few positive affirmations around the specifics of regection.. e.g. I am fun and loveable and attract many people who like me and care.
all the best.  |