[dmobfuscation]

I’ve run into a problem. I only seem to have the ability to attract women; which is great because I want a woman (read: wife). I have my goals in life set out, a career, a steady place to live and a newer car. I pay my own bills; and otherwise do all the “adult” things that most people my age don’t do. (like hold a job).

Problem is, while the 27 – 39 year olds that I attract are more-or-less what I’m looking for I’m only 19. Leaving both of us saying, WTF? (usually we get closer and closer until the "how come you can't goto the bar" question comes up >.>)I don’t attract girls my age; and so I ask; how can I attract these irresponsible; naughty; young-ladies?

It’s not that I don’t go out and have fun, from what my female friends have told me I am attractive, smart, have some cash, but otherwise because I don’t live my life based on things like strife and envy I just don’t pull.

Aside from being a superficial ******* (read: I'm a "nice guy")... what can I do?


[edit] Basically, what I'm saying is why are girls my age afraid of a relationship with me? They will sleep with me, be my best friend, try out new and crazy things with me, but can't commit.


-dm