Hi templanoid!
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Originally Posted by templanoid  and funny people are the ones that can attract people and have a good time with each other. |
So I had a pretty good laugh when you said that! Silly you! And you say you can't be funny?
You seem to have two very limiting beliefs 1) that you can't be funny 2) that only funny people can have a good time.
Both beliefs are equally untrue and unfounded. Maybe you could start digging through your soul to find out why you have these beliefs. Where are they rooted? Once you've found the base, uproot the darned tree and plant some nice flowers instead!
Btw. you might also want to read European38's thread, since she shares somewhat similar (and equally unfounded) beliefs. You have to excuse me for being too lazy to retype much of the advice I already gave to her. There's also a boatload of older threads about how "fixing" a social life or overcoming social anxiety, all there for you to explore and learn from.
Good luck to you!