Thanks Steve for this post. So timely during Thanksgiving
I'd like to share a personal story too. There was once when I took the initiative to speak to a friend on more than just the usual bantering level. It turned out to be an informal coaching session where I also shared some experiences (which I usually don't).
As I talked, I actually had tears in my eyes, which again is a first. My friend haven't seen this side of me at all, nor anyone in fact. She too was shocked. I guess that was a moment of expression as I really spoke from my heart, and this feeling of wanting to help her was just so strong.
At the end of it, she was very thankful for my sharings and advices. Guess what? I felt grateful too for that chance to connect with one more friend.