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Originally Posted by Ninja  maybe it's also fear playing a role, even though she might not realize it. Not only fear that you fail, but fear that you might succeed. ... what happens if I do succeed? They'll have to watch me being happy and will constantly be reminded of the courage they themselves lacked. |
It's also possible that she's afraid that if you succeed, your relationship may alter in a way that makes the two of you incompatible.