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dancer · 01-01-2008, 03:20 PM

Hi Uber,

I'm sorry you are having a tough time.

Is it possible that your bf doesn't know how to deal with your past? You mentioned you told him that the anniversary of your fiancé's death is coming up, perhaps it is easier for him to not be around you during this time. Not everyone knows how to deal with things like this. It's not just hard for those grieving, but also for those in the peripheral. It might even be so simple that he wants to give you the space you need to grieve for your fiancé.

My heart is with you.

01-01-2008, 03:20 PM	#8 (permalink)
dancer Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 522	Hi Uber, I'm sorry you are having a tough time. Is it possible that your bf doesn't know how to deal with your past? You mentioned you told him that the anniversary of your fiancé's death is coming up, perhaps it is easier for him to not be around you during this time. Not everyone knows how to deal with things like this. It's not just hard for those grieving, but also for those in the peripheral. It might even be so simple that he wants to give you the space you need to grieve for your fiancé. My heart is with you.