The others have said some really sensible things already, but I just have to ask you about this part:
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Originally Posted by blueberry  Our relationship was incredibly isolating since I had moved to be with him |
Why was it isolating to be with him? Did he lock you up in the house, so you couldn't go out? (Hope not) Were there no other people in the town he lives in? No internet? No phone? Nothing?
Or was it because
you chose to give all your attention to him and this relationship, neglecting yourself in the process?
Whether you stay with this guy or move on to meet another love, you have to realize that you shouldn't be in a relationship that makes you unhappy, just for your partner's benefit. Even if you do love him.