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Originally Posted by Gordon  You cannot live your life in fear!!! You will miss out on so much!!
Go start your family....your persprectives will change.
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Changing your perspective is a terrible reason to start a family.
No one can grow up overnight.
Don't have kids to "change the world" - this is displacing your wishes upon another human being.
Don't have kids to "change your perspective" - this is using that child as an object for your own improvement.
Don't have kids because you want love - children need all of your love all the time RIGHT NOW.
Don't have kids to fulfill any of your own needs. ONLY have children if you are fully ready as a human being to give all of yourself all the time.
THEN AND ONLY THEN will that child be prepared to actually change the world IF HE OR SHE WANTS TO.
Let's shed the narcissism already and treat children for what they are - separate individual human beings who need constant replenishing of resources in order to be able to give back.