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Originally Posted by ixmatus  Talk to him about it, if no neutral ground is reached then just leave.
Also realize that everyone in the world is self-centered; the difference is, however, that a man who is both self-centered and caring for you will have his emotions invested in you and the relationship. This dude sounds like he still has some older emotions invested in the ex and that old relationship, which is not what you deserve, because you are self-centered and want someone who is reciprocally invested in the relationship!
So, like I said, if talking to him doesn't turn out then leave him and make yourself available for a man that can invest in the relationship.
This current guy isn't the bad guy, he is probably just trying to get through some rough and confusing emotions. |
Hi Ixmatus
Interesting view point, thoughtful too. I have spoken to him on previous occassions however as I stated in my post he is very apt at turning the conversation back to him again.
I am a patient and tolerant person and have been told to me many a time in the past. I am conscious of what is happening at this point with this guy and have given him alot of emotional input.
Do I really want to be there and support him through rough times only to be spat out at the other end?
I am not angry at him, yes disappointed that yet again he has gone back on his word. That is what saddens me.
Alyesha