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Originally Posted by sonicpunk32  Rose of Cairo, all my friends are shallow. How exactly did you attract intimate friends? I didnt know you could have a choice to not accept shallow people, I thought I had to just deal with it and accept them. I want intimate friends. |
Hmmm.... good question... it just happens. We just start talking about things that matter. Isn't that much more interesting than cars and news?
You have the choice not to accept them. If they're not interesting, nobody forces you to talk to them. Just walk away
But I think when you're being intimate with others and with yourself, you'll automatically attract people who are intimate with you too.
I know that a few years ago, I was extremely shy and had no close connection to anyone. Then something happened and now I have the "only a few but very close" friendship model.
Give me a few minutes, I'll think about it and tell you what exactly happened, ok?