IMHO, the only thing you can do to help people get what they want is to provide them tools for seeing what (in themselves) is in the way, and how to get those things out of the way.
A dating specialist isn't going to do someone much good if they go into each and every date with the fundamental belief that they are ugly and unlovable. Similarly, a money coach will do someone little good if their fundamental belief is that they are going to end up penniless.
This might sound a little harsh, but I don't believe that advice in and of itself makes much a difference for people. Someone could advise me on how to handle dating, and that advice might provide be useful tools, but until I deal with the fundamental conversations I have about dating (i.e. "I don't have what it takes") then putting that advice to action is like putting icing on mud pie.
One of the things I like about Steve and Erin's site is that
they do put tools into peoples' hands for this. But for me, honestly, that's not enough. I take and lead seminars at a company organized around the principles mentioned above, and in that community I am able to do this work on myself in areas where there are blocks to me having what I want.
YMMV and all of that.
