I already have the mindset of feeling the fear and do it anyway. Even more, doing just what I feared to do, to feel more confident about myself.
I think that now I don't fear a thing. I've never before had get to this situation thought.
I think that blaming our fears for intentions that can't manifest because other ones makes them not possible just makes us frustated. We need to know what we can do and what we can not. But many of you state that everything is possible, etc and if it's not possible it is because of fears or so...
I don't think so.
Thought, well... you could say we intend something because we want a change. And if we want a change we may fear that this change never will happen... so there you have a fear.
The more you intend there more you fear ("Desire is the cause of suffering" Buddisht say...).
Maybe my only fear would be these 2 intentions I have, NEVER coming true or so.
But how can you avoid that? If you intend something you may have the fear of it never coming true.
What a mess...
Well, to take out that fear... I can stop intending... that would mean I don't mind if it happens or not... I may not have so much fear then of staying the same...
Maybe if you intend for some time and then you stop intending, it all work out better, I don't know.
From my personal experience, when I stopped intending (at least consciously) my two big intentions I didn't advanced at all to them.
Maybe I intended them subsconsciously... so I would have to stop subsconsciosly intending what I'm intending now to stop fearing subsconsciously...
I may think that it doesn't matter if those things happen or not... then... why trying to make them happen?
Yeah, I could intend them anyway to make my life a little better... but I don't think I FEAR the not-manifestation of my 2 big things....
If not when I stopped searching for them and I was OK, they would have manifested because of my subsconscious desire or so.
Well, courage is supposed to be my greatest virtue. I don't think fear could be my "mistake".
I just don't believe in this standard model.
It may work for many, but not for me.