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Originally Posted by m18pak  RioroseIsAStar8507, look, I don't really know what to say to you. I mean, we attract towards us the people that reflect us....
You're a stripper, so what kind of guys did you think you were going to meet?
Riorose, the thing you have to understand is that life gives us what we are. You have these sort of problems because of who you are (and I'm not judging you for being who you are. I used to be a suicidal neurotic geek who hated everybody, was scared of being in public, and cut himself, so I know what it's like to just want to give up on life)
If you really want to stop have these sort of problems, then you have to stop being the sort of person who has these sort of problems.
You choose this path; you decided to live this life. And now you can choose a new life and a new path, you just have to become a new person.
If you want to change your life, then you must give up the life that you have now.
If you really want to change, then are only three things that you need to do:
1) Know exactly what you want.
By this I mean that you need to decide EXACTLY what it is that you want. You need to have it written down on a piece of paper so that you can look at it whenever you feel like it.
2) Know yourself
Take a long good look at yourself, and you will discover why you are where you are in life. Look at yourself as you really are.
3) Know who you have to become to get what you want
This part should be self-explanatory. Once you know what you want, try to find people who have it and study them. Look at why they have what you want, and then you'll know how you can get it too. Copy them.
RioroseIsAStar8507, you are on a website dedicated to the topic of Self-development, do you know what that is?
Self-development is about changing yourself. It is believing that you can change the things that you don't like about yourself. It is believing that you are in ultimate control of your own life, and so you only have yourself to blame if your life isn't what you want it to be.
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I pretty much agree with what m18pak says. You are attracting the people that you don't want because of the negativity that you feel inside. This is The Law Of Attraction in play.
When you feel positive inside, you send out positive energy vibrations. The Universe gives you more of the same. However, if you do not feel good about yourself and have negative thoughts, you are sending out negative energy vibrations. Guess what the Universe gives you? More negativity.
You need to brace up and take charge. You can do it. Most of us do not realise that we have the power within ourselves to change and much capacity for self love.
Find out about how to bolster your self esteem. Read books. Surf the net. Check out tools and techniques (like EFT at
EFT Provides Impressive Health and Emotional Freedom--New Discovery Often Works Where Nothing Else) that can help you speed up the process.
When you feel down, come on this site to ask for encouragement. I'm sure the forum members here will be willing to support you so long as you dare make a positive change.
With much love and hugs,
Evelyn