Make choices that will lead to you being confident, happy and the person you want to be. Would going back to this guy lead to these things? Ask yourself every morning what you can do now that will lead you there. Pursue your passions.
I think when you get that you are responsible for what is happening in your life, you will feel a little shift within. Don't beat yourself up because you made choices that have lead to unhappiness. Forgive yourself and know that from now, this minute, you have the power to make your life into what you want it to be.
Be glad that you are not that guy's wife. Walk away to better things.
Oh, and I totally agree with the others re. working on yourself before starting a new relationship.
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