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Originally Posted by MrsCogan  You have decide what you want in life and make goals and action plans. But then you have to get up off the couch and work for what you want. |
Hello, Mrs.Cogan. Welcome to you and your Newcomer Mandates! I don't begrudge you your point of view, but I'd like to let you know that in fact, I don't have to decide what I want in life, I don't have to make goals and action plans, and I don't even have to get up off the couch and work for what I want! Some of my most fun and rewarding work is done on my couch, as a matter of fact.
You are very welcome to your belief in these requirements in your life, you may be right, and thank you for sharing them, but they have nothing to do with me and creating a life I love.
I would like to invite you to try on a communication style that generates a space of freedom, as opposed to the Bossy Boots Operational Method (Bossy Boots' motto: "I'm right and you're wrong!") . Just to see how it goes.
Lots of love,
Angela