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Originally Posted by RioroseIsAStar8507  how do i stop my mind from wandering on all the past negatives when i need to stop and just forgive and think in the present... |
Just do it. Sounds too simple, but it works. Every time you catch yourself thinking of the past, just focus on something else for a minute. Concentrate on what's happening right now around you. Or on what's happening in your body right now. Or just choose a thought that you like and makes you feel good.
Looking for another guy is not a solution, you would stay dependent. Don't rely on drugs or men to feel better. The root of your problem in your head. But you have the power to control your thoughts, and that's your strength!
Yes, you keep attracting these men. And as long as you don't change your thoughts, you will attract such men again and again. I would advise you to forget about men and just work on feeling better, with yourself and your life. Think thoughts that make you happy. Love yourself
You'll make it.