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Running away has nothing to do with forgiving a person. Even if she moved, it doesn't mean her negative feelings for that guy will magically disappear.
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Its not really running away, the world is a small place. But it makes it alot easier to forgive people when they are not around you compounding the problem and antagonizing you.
I get the feeling this guy is the kind that just wont leave you alone? Because if he did leave you alone you would need to be posting here ? it seems like an ongoing thing.
And, if she has told here friends this and they arent making an effort to help her than that says something about them too, perhaps making new friends in a new place away from her current situation would make it easier on her.
Not all of us are so tough that we can take on all of our problems at once. Getting a fresh start allows you some breathing room to deal with your issues when you choose too so that you are able to function better and be happier.
I know I was depressed before I moved and didn't even realize it, I used to wake up and go back to sleep and wish I didn't have to wake up and go thorugh the day. Now I wake up and look forward too whats going to happen. The new people im going to meet, what im going to accomplish.. How can I make myself a better person. One step at a time, I don't have to focus on a wide range of emotional,environmental or social problems. I can focus on enjoying life and what the next day is going to bring.