Well, this guy doesn't exactly sound like the pick of the litter. You did meet him at a strip club, what did you expect? He told you he had a wife, what kind of person did you think he was?
In my opinion, the absolute best thing for you to do would be forgive him. You don't have to talk to him and tell him you are forgiving him for hurting you so much, just in your mind truly forgive him and move on. Never speak to him again. I don't think he ever truly loved you, but none of this is your fault.
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