You know, when you watch the movie The secret or you read anything about law of attraction, they always tell you to continuously focus on what you want... at the same time, if fear has such a grip on you, it can be difficult to do this. Sometimes we are not completely aware, and we have to actually look at what we are not aware of in order to get what we want in life.
For example, steve's previous post about lightworker syndrome, a lot of people didn't realize they had a fear of power or of responsibility, and when they read it, they realized that was what was holding them back.
So I guess there's a balance... you can't know what you want, without knowing what it's contrast is... But you need to identify the contrast in order to identify what is that you need.. but you shouldn't focus on the contrast to the point of feeding it with your emotions and intention.
I have issues with accepting the fear and turning it into a consequence in my mind... If I have a fear that something will happen, and then not fear it but realize it's a possible consequence... and then decide not to choose it... Source determines how things happen... we leave the how up to God, and just focus on "what" -- wouldn't I be trying to control the "how" if I decide against a consequence? I feel that if you focus yourself as positive as possible as possible, don't a lot of these fears just fall away?
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