Originally Posted by bsitto
I understand what your saying its the same thing I've been hearing for a while and thats move on and be open to the idea that I will find better.
I just wish somehow someone can just promise me or gaurantee me that on a chemistry scale that this guy was a 9 and I will meet a 10. Because the way I see it now he's a 10 and there is no such thing as 11.
If this promise is all you need, then consider it done. I loved 3½ guys (the ½ is the first one who I think I was too young to fully love) and each one I thought was the one meant for me. My love for each guy got progressively more substantial and the connection between me and the guy stronger with each new guy and I had been long deceived by a bond I had imagined existed between me and the first 1½ guys which made me certain that the guy in question was the one for me. After my experience with the 2½ guy, I realized that the bond I experienced was 1. always one-sided and 2. existed within me whenever I love someone, independent of the relationship and the guy.
What I'm trying to say, is guy #1½ was better than guy #½, guy #2½ was better than guy #1½ etc. And my love and bond with each one was always stronger and/or more real than the previous one and each relationship had more substance than the previous one.
If you are only on #1, I'm sure that the next one will exceed him.
Now I don't know what all this stuff about chemistry is either, though. The way you described it though, it reminds me of a joke from the Muppet Show:
Man pig: Oh, I'm so crazy about you I can't see straight!
Lady pig: I'm so goofy about you I can't eat!
Man pig: I'm so much in love with you I can't even sleep!
Lady pig: Well what should we do?
Zuit the saxophone player: Check into a hospital man!