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So you're not a judgemental person, that's why you want us to judge that guy?
Honestly, I don't understand what the problem is. I don't find what you said about salad upsetting. Since you did not tell us what he exactly criticized about you, I can't make any meaningful comment. I don't understand why you got so angry either. What I see is that you're judging him quite harshly and that you care A LOT about what others think and that you're trying to prove that you're right. I wonder why. But this email is absolutely inappropriate! He's your business partner, not your lover. I hope you did not send that to him.
Maybe it would make sense to get some professional support to help you deal with this situation? It looks like it's really affecting you and that you're suffering because of that.
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Im not asking you to judge him as a person, you obviously cant do that because you have not met him or known him personally for a long time and even then you aren't the almighty.
He criticizes almost every "conversation" I engage in and makes it seem like there is something "wrong" with me. I don't feel that there is anything wrong with me. Its not like I was criticized once but repeatedly.
I'm to the point to where I don't really care if we do hang out anyway, though I would like to be friends with him. I guess the only real solution is to just not speak when im with him and near other people. But if that is the case I would rather not be there. I would rather go with someone who is more "easy going" like myself that is not afraid to express them selfs or say what the have to say. It makes it allot easier on me because I am not good at reading people or guessing what they are thinking.
Technically on the same token I could criticize almost every aspect of a meaningless small talk conversations that is a blatant waste of time and breath, but people wouldn't like me if I did that now would they.