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Well, your business partner has a lot of self-control. By now, I'd have bashed your head in with a rock while screaming. He's your business partner. He tried to take you out. You responded by being, well, er, obnoxious. Just chill out and enjoy the sport or whatever you do with him, or stop hanging out with him.
Look, some people are embarrassing to hang out with. If he's embarrassed to be seen with you, he's not obligated to change. Why should he have to feel humiliation? Because you need a buddy?
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First off I don't really understand how I come off as obnoxious when In truth I only said a few sentences the whole time. I didnt ramle on and on about something. I may add more than what is nesseccary but Im not an over talkative person. I did enjoy myself I didnt realize there was an issue intil after the fact.
I actually dont "need" a buddy. I have plenty of friends the like and respect me and when and if I say something or add something that is not needed they laugh at me or let me know in some way that I am doing or saying something wrong.
The "old" me would not even have engaged in a conversation in the first place because in all honesty I find the whole job of talking to someone I don't know a chore since I don't feel the need get to know everyone I meet.
On the last part I agree with you, if hes going to judge everything I say and do and be humiliated I don't want to hang out with him in the first place. I would much rather go out with like minded people that have something interesting to say in the first place beyond useless information that no one really cares about or has no real "learning" value to it.