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Originally Posted by wolfgang  I'm wondering now about "broken hearts". That everyone has a different level of what it feels like to have a relationship fall apart or not work out. But what makes the suffering level different? One person is able to move on while one is freaking out.
Is the freaking out level of a broken relationship directly related self esteme? The less you feel whole on your own, the more suseptable one is to a suffering during heart break? |
I wonder why it's not okay to be heartbroken and sad when you lose a love relationship. Obviously, it's more desirable to live your life free from pain and heartache, but I don't see anything wrong with being able to grieve over something lost.
I was very heartbroken when my Mother died, but I don't think it related to my level of self - esteem. Or maybe, were not talking about the same thing?