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Originally Posted by shesaboutspirit  Once you understand the triggers...and that they reflect an unhealed belief of your own...then you stop giving other people the power to hurt you with them.
Does this make sense? It's subtle but powerful to see...and then take back your own power that you were giving to them.
Pam |
I think Pam's right here in the unhealed belief. Why is this person able to create such huge and lasting anger in you for so long?
Could it be you felt hurt and your pride is bruised? If it is, then could it be your own association of that kind of behavior to your ego? Maybe if you can define your self-esteem you may even turn around and laugh at the person's action because it is just so (fill in the blank)
I'm not sure if I'm hitting the nail, if it is then I'm glad. If not, just ignore it then! Just another perspective that's all.