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Originally Posted by Spiritual  Dude you got a hell of a lotta premade believes that are just so FAR from the truth. I can not judge your true personality, if it's mere outgoing and people can't handle it, you've been hanging out with the wrong lot. If your true personality means that you only want to have the attention fixated on you and what to be in the spotlight, than that is not your true personality either.
Being outgoing and selfconfident will far from make folks insult you. I can understand your experience taught you that, but it really is far from the truth. |
It really just depends how it's expressed. I have plenty of fake personalities that people enjoy and downright love, but they are fake, and it takes me a lot of effort to put on those faces and I don't enjoy doing that. A lot of them are very sarcastic and negative and give me bad vibes. People seem to love sarcasm and insincerity. Or alternately, people love the guy who is an alpha-male violent jerk. And by violent I don't mean physical violence, I mean emotional/mental violence. In the past I've put on that face and girls love it, and guys respect it. I don't enjoy doing it though so I don't do it anymore.
My natural personality is uninhibited and doesn't crave attention, but people downright don't like it. I can't pretend to know exactly why but I guess it's just because it's too "warm" or enthusiastic or positive or something. This "natural" personality is pretty bubbly, warm, optimistic. Think Ned Flanders. Why does everybody hate Ned Flanders? He seems like the happiest guy in Springfield, but for whatever reason people hate him for it.
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And you're saying that shy girls are cute, but really I couldn't disagree more with that.
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Everyone has their personal preference. My point wasn't that "all guys" think shy girls are cute. Just that lots do.
How many girls find the shy guy cute though? Even the shy girls are attracted to the jocks.