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So since you said you cant prove anything I set out to prove who I am instead by taking some psycology tests that analyze my personality.
In order to see if and what the fundamental flaws are with my personality. Before you critize someone which is just a simple part of an "extroverts" personality trait you should read your own and criticize yourself first instead of worrying about other people. And remember that no one is perfect and perfection is unattainable. No personality type is perfect.
Since I do not believe that you will read beyond this paragraph I will lay it out for you. I am who I am and it will not change over night.
- I respect other people
- I listen and analyze what other people say and make an effort to learn from it if possible
- I am in fact easy to get along with ( even though at times I argue about stupid **** that is in fact irrelevant to both parties but most of the time its because im bored or am testing someones reactions).
- I am very direct as you have noticed I do not see the need to hide my feelings. It is disrespectfully to "pretend" to like someone when you do not and is especially disrespectful to talk about them negatively when you leave the room because you do not have the courage to confront them in the moment that they caused you to not like them in the first place. ( and infact you should not judge a person based on one encounter) there are many reasons people can be a specific way at any given moment (aka they could be tired, emotionly stressed, having a bad day or just not focused at the time).
- I am responsible and meet the requirements of agreements I make.
I am analytical and know most of my flaws already because I analyze myself. I already know that I am not a gifted communicator and sometimes things come out wrong or I say something stupid because I do not know what to say, but in an effort to balance my introversion into extroversion but not too much. (because too much extroversion makes you shallow and judgmental.) I try to engage in conversation. And because obviously I am not good at starting conversations due to my lack of social skills due to my introverted personality, of course it is a difficult task for me.
So here we are at the point that I am making, I already know that communication and social skills is not one of my talents.
When you harass me about it you do more harm than good and infact if I wasn't so analytical it would push me more towards being
even more introverted because you are attacking my core confidence in even attempting to make a conversation in the first place which is infact an effort
to improve my social skills in the first place. Instead of offering advice on how to start a conversation you harass me about and tell me that " i can go by myself next time"
Since you are so keen to point out my flaws ill hand you some of yours.
From my perspective you come off as "Judgemental, Stuck Up and Shallow"). Never in my life have I heard someone tell me that they did not want to go
somewhere in public with me because I had a conversation about salad or made a comment about it. This is just one example.
I in fact have allot of friends in many states and they already know my flaws because they are my friends ( if they did not like me or did not come to know my personality they are not my friends but an acquaintance). they accept me for who I am and most tend to like and respect me when they get to know me.
http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/200...-to-extrovert/
"Envisioning yourself as the wrong kind of extrovert. If you find the extroverted people around you shallow and perhaps even annoying, why would you want to be more like them? You wouldn't."
Wow I can't agree more with the creator of this website lol!
"Realize that when you hold yourself back from socializing, you're not only depriving yourself — you're also depriving other people of the chance to get to know you. How much longer do you want your future spouse or best friend to remain alone?"
Anyway I do not dislike you any less or believe you are a bad person because of your extroverted personality since I am not
very much of an "emotional" person. I understand extroversion and introversion and how people lean toward a certain personality trait. I have not met
if at all anyone with an extremely balanced personality. Such a thing takes years of practice and intellectual resolve to even come close to achieving.
If you do not agree with my assessment I can post it in a forum of psychology which would describe me and you in an honest way and everything each of us said and did and how we reacted. Since we both have flaws that apparently do not work well with eachother it would take a 3rd party to say if my perspective is correct or not. The post would not include names of course. Do you have to courage to find out the truth ?
Perhaps they will say that we are both correct from our own perspectives.
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Online test based on Jung - Myers-Briggs typology
Your Type is
INTJ
Introverted Intuitive Thinking Judging
Strength of the preferences %
56 75 1 1
Qualitative analysis of your type formula
You are:
* moderately expressed introvert
* distinctively expressed intuitive personality
* slightly expressed thinking personality
* slightly expressed judging personality
Read this description of what a INTJ personality type is it is 99% accurate
INTJ Profile
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Additionally I took the "ultimate psychology test"
The Ultimate Personality Test - Tickle Personality Tests
"This means you're one of the more kind-hearted people around. You are unusually intuitive, and you probably understand yourself, as well as others. That also means you're a good mediator — though you may prefer to spend more time on your own than most.
You are better equipped than many to steer your life in the right direction. Understanding more about the components of your personality will reveal unique information that even people like you might not realize. And the better you know yourself, the more confident you'll be making decisions that affect your life."
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Free Jung + Enneagram Personality Test (102 questions)
Introverted (I) 57.5% Extroverted (E) 42.5%
Sensing (S) 50% Intuitive (N) 50%
Thinking (T) 77.14% Feeling (F) 22.86%
Judging (J) 60.61% Perceiving (P) 39.39%
Your type is: INTJ
INTJ - "Mastermind". Introverted intellectual with a preference for finding certainty. A builder of systems and the applier of theoretical models. 2.1% of total population.
Enneagram Test Results
The Enneagram is a personality system which divides the entire human personality into nine behavioral tendencies, this is your score on each...
Type 1 Perfectionism |||||||||||||||| 63%
Type 2 Helpfulness |||||||||||||| 56%
Type 3 Image Awareness |||||||||| 33%
Type 4 Sensitivity |||||||||||| 50%
Type 5 Detachment |||||||||||||||||| 73%
Type 6 Anxiety |||||||||||||||| 63%
Type 7 Adventurousness |||||||||||||||| 70%
Type 8 Aggressiveness |||||||||||| 46%
Type 9 Calmness |||||||||||||| 60%
type score type behavior motivation
5 22 I must be knowledgable and independent to be happy.
7 21 I must be high and entertained to be happy.
1 19 I must be perfect and good to be happy.
6 19 I must be secure and safe to be happy.
9 18 I must be peaceful and easy to get along with to be happy.
You scored as Type 5
Your variant is self pres
Global Advanced Personality Test (126 questions)
Advanced Global Personality Test Results
Extraversion |||||||||||||| 60%
Stability |||||||||||||| 60%
Orderliness |||||||||||||||||| 76%
Accommodation |||||||||||| 43%
Interdependence |||||||||||||||||| 76%
Intellectual |||||||||||||||||||| 90%
Mystical |||||||||| 36%
Artistic |||||| 30%
Religious |||||||||||| 43%
Hedonism || 10%
Materialism |||||||||||||||| 70%
Narcissism |||||||||||| 43%
Adventurousness |||||||||||||||| 63%
Work ethic |||||||||||||||| 63%
Self absorbed |||||| 23%
Conflict seeking |||||||||| 36%
Need to dominate |||||| 30%
Romantic |||||||||||| 50%
Avoidant |||||||||||||| 56%
Anti-authority |||||||||||||||| 63%
Wealth |||||||||||| 43%
Dependency |||||||||| 36%
Change averse |||||||||||||| 56%
Cautiousness |||||||||||||||| 63%
Individuality |||||||||||||| 56%
Sexuality |||||| 23%
Peter pan complex |||||| 30%
Physical security |||||||||||||||||| 76%
Physical fitness |||||||||||| 44%
Histrionic |||||||||||| 50%
Paranoia |||||||||||||||| 63%
Vanity |||| 16%
Hypersensitivity |||||||||||| 43%
Indie |||||||||||||| 51%
Stability results were moderately high which suggests you are relaxed, calm, secure, and optimistic.
Orderliness results were high which suggests you are overly organized, reliable, neat, and hard working at the expense too often of flexibility, efficiency, spontaneity, and fun.
Extraversion results were moderately high which suggests you are, at times, overly talkative, outgoing, sociable and interacting at the expense of developing your own individual interests and internally based identity.