Maybe you can first find out what makes you so free with those friends whom you can talk to so easily? What about them makes you so relaxed.
Then before you speak to a new friend, imagine yourself speaking to your close friends and put yourself into that state. You will begin to notice a different sensation going in your body.
At the same time, reading will help you to gain a wider knowledge of subjects. With this, you'll find it easier to make small talk with new acquaintances.
Pick up Dale Carnegie's book on How To Win Friends And Influence People. I find that useful!
Lastly, take a deep breath and just do it. Practice makes perfect. This is always true. The more you speak, the more easily it gets! Have Fun!
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