[Erin Pavlina]

What if your wife posted the same thing you did and you found out? How would you feel?

And the woman at work who knows you're married and is still flirting with you? Wow... nice woman.

If you have an affair and keep it from your wife you're liable to feel guilt and/or shame which are two of the lowest vibrations you can feel.

I agree with other posters in that you should try to get what you're seekign from your wife first and then make your choice.