In addition to the suggestions that you grow up, honor your mutual committment to fidelity or renogiate the terms of your marriage, examine your integrity, and just quit responding to the other woman if you really want to remain faithful---what I'm wondering is----
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Originally Posted by frajilthunder  "but I love my wife, I don't want to leave her, I just want to have some fun too" is exactly where I'm at |
Any way at all you and your wife could have some (illicit) fun together? What's the chances of the two of you creating a little kinkiness and thrill together?
Other than that, the others pretty much covered it. I'll just add this---If you go through with *sexing up* your co-worker, your wife is not the only one your infidelity will devastate. She can leave. You, on the other hand, are pretty much stuck with you.