[frajilthunder]

I've been faithfully married for almost 19 years now, and we have a good marriage -- talk easily and openly, good sex life, still get romantic, rarely fight, etc.

But I'm getting tired of monogomy, and the only thing keeping me monogomous is knowing how my infidelity would devistate my wife were she to find out about it. I've got the biggest crush on this woman I work with and I want to sex her up so bad I can taste it. She gives me signals, like hugs when I come back from vacation, her telling me she missed me, teasingly inviting me to run away with her when she's had a bad day, things like that.

My obsession with her ebbs and flows, and it's flowing like hell recently, but I have yet to initiate anything more than some light flirtiness. Still I live with the urge to step up my game everyday. So I'm looking for some smart people on here to give me advice on how to be content with my fragile fidelity.