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Originally Posted by wolfgang  There have been users of this forum saying it's possible to fall in love and not suffer it it falls apart. |
How would you define suffering?
Does it hurt when a love falls apart? Certainly. But that doesn't mean I'll suffer. I'd probably be sad for a little while or maybe even for a long while, but the hurt goes away quickly. My happiness is not and was not the result of the love that is past, but rather my happiness was one of the seeds that made that love possible.
I was happy before and I will be happy again afterwards.