Confession is good for the soul. Maybe you could find an impartial person to talk this out with in detail, perhaps a priest or someone similar.(you don't have to belong to their religion for it to help)
It could be that she desires to know who harmed her and your guilt is part of the process of her finding out.
You could try to rectify the situation anonymously by, sending her monetary compensation, using IM on her behalf, or going through a visualization of the 2 of you talking this out to a satisfying result.
If you have a great deal of fear and emotion tied to your actions, the thing you fear may very well come to pass (think Job). Deal with the guilt and fear or it will deal with you.
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