 for Nneka
wow, that's a long relationship. Sounds like you've gained some wisdom though. I'm pretty good at making excuses for others too...that I would never tolerate from myself. The most useful thing I'm learning is how to balance feeling the feelings...that come up in life, grief, sadness etc., and also doing something constructive to move on. Up until very recently, I've been bogged down with sadness and have remained passive to a large degree...letting life just happen, rather than being proactive.
Sending blessings for your healing and transcending of the current lessons,
Pam
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