[Erin Pavlina]

I will add this. Many years ago, when I was 15 I met a man I loved dearly. As our friendship grew into our 20's I thought he was the man I was going to marry. He was exactly what I wanted. But circumstances were never quite right for us and eventually we parted, still friends. I thought I had lost my soul mate.

Then I met Steve. I can say with 20/20 hindsight that Steve was a better match for me than that first guy. But if you had asked me at the time I would have stated, for the record, that that other guy and I were "supposed" to be together.

Don't lose faith.