That makes perfect sense to me. I am ending a 14 year relationship in which I made every excuse for the person. I finally stopped. I am going through the process of letting him go and letting go of the hope I have invested in the relationship. (Please don't read letting go of hope in general, just all the energy I put into trying to make it work.)
Interestingly, it has been so much easier letting this go than it was keeping it together. It's like a 100:1 ratio.
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