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Originally Posted by Lola  The sheer volume of attention prevents an attractive woman from responding favorably to all advances. Which is why, for our attention to be captured, there has to be something about a man that sets him apart from all the rest. Something like the open expression of affection in sly's letter, for example. |
I guess I wasn't clear---I wasn't talking about some strange guy approaching you. I meant you were in a situation where the guy knew you enough that he thought he had a chance at taking it further, or perhaps thought that you were already IN some sort of romantic relationship.
Lola I have to disagree here. I think the open expression in the letter IS exactly what most guys would do (if they were shy, inexperienced, whatever). It's also what most men do before they hear "I like you as a friend."