Originally Posted by cylon
She's the girl. It's her job to write you notes like that. It's your job to just be a cool guy and bring that sort of thing out of HER. Buy her a cute little trinket and don't say that sort of thing until she says it first.
You're not leaving much to the imagination. You're better off if she is wondering about how you feel about her. Actions over words. SHOW her by your actions that you like being with her.
In my opinion that will scare her off... this is the sort of thing that ends with "thanks for the note, and I hope you and I can always be good friends."
Don't do it.
Just had a reaction to this. Girl's job to write the notes? No it's not. What do you think all the guy's writing rock songs are doing? They are swooning the ladies. Guys can write notes just as much a girls, and should. Its terrible that there's a conditioning that tells guys to not write words to there gfs. I stared writing to girls because they started it, and I thought why not return the favour? And "trinkets" - yuk. like dust collecters that sit on a shelf to look "pretty" - how wants that junk?