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Originally Posted by caesar8181  I tried something similar to this once...It didnt go down too well. |
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Originally Posted by MyEyeIsOpen ...I think you will scare her. |
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Originally Posted by Flash1988 Sorry to be sceptical but if you're in the friends zone I'm not sure if this will go down well....sending that will engage her logically.. Women respond well to emotion. |
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Originally Posted by JimOfferman I shy away from love letters like these, because they have rarely accomplished the goals I had in mind when writing the letter. |
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Originally Posted by wolfgang If you can't say what you wrote in the letter to her directly, then don't give her that letter....to tell someone you love them, I think before actually dating at least and kissing some is too soon to say that (maybe that's just me). |
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Originally Posted by Flash1988 ...One day the guy jumps out and tells her how he feels and that he wants to be her boyfriend or whatever and that he loves her and she has a natural tendency to back off and ignore him entirely.
The guy can waste years of his life trying to win her over... |
Where do you think this stuff comes from? Why do you think I AM echoing these sentiments? Because I've experienced them first hand, and these lessons HURT. I have done things like this. And I thought it was "different" she was "different". It wasn't. She wasn't.
Have you ever had something go romantically wrong with a co-worker? I hope not. I have. It SUCKS. Sucks donkeys. The wonderful "friend" you get to see everyday can turn into the uncomfrortable experience and the person you "have" to see everyday.
And the cool thing is, right now, you don't have to experience it. At this point, you can STILL just have a good time with her, kiss her, maybe get more physical. Too soon. Too too soon.
Don't take this harshly, because I am trying to save you LOTS of pain--you say you don't care but you do. You care very deeply and as a man you need to have a little armor on that heart or you WILL get burned dude. But sometimes you have to get burned before it actually sinks in.
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Originally Posted by Bliss Sage And I also was thinking all of those who say it's a bad idea were men... |
Damn straight.
