How you doing and What's up guys are two of my favorite "lines" to give value.
That said I don't use lines or think of it.
Giving value is really about an UNADULTERATED EXPRESSION of what's inside.
Unstifled.
Unforgiving.
Unreactive.
Raw.
Real.
Damn, it's that simple. Put yourself out there and be. Be unstifled. Interact without remorse, without APOLOGY for YOURSELF. Ever. You never apologize for YOURSELF. Sure, I can apologize for actions, or disrespect, or something like that. But NEVER YOURSELF. "Oh, I'm so sorry I exist, can you guys help me feel better?" That's Value TAKER. Value giving: "Hey, what's up guys! You guys are awesome! I just had to meet you!" Full cup. Overflowing with value. Value can be created and given but it can NEVER BE DESTROYED, only taken. "I want value for myself, you guys can't have it, please let me take your value so that I can feel good about myself." This is bad.
This stuff is learned if you go out, so go out and have a blast GIVING VALUE! |