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Old 12-17-2007, 10:47 PM   #22 (permalink)
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Well, I don't know. I've never been at the powerful end, but I've been falling head over heels in my life to try to get there.
Bliss Sage, I'm sorry if I misunderstood you. From the things you've said in this thread, I had the impression that shyness does indeed cost you dearly, and that you would be "at the powerful end" if shyness were not running you. You see, I don't see shyness as an innate personality trait -- "who you are and you should just learn to be comfortable with that" -- something that you are not free to let go of, if it's not working for you in creating a life you love.

But if shyness does work for you in creating a life you love, if you don't feel it's something that is holding you back from being powerful and effective, then by all means, keep it and use it. My suggestions are only meant in the spirit of freedom of choice, boldly looking at your life, and generating a life you love.
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