If you can't say what you wrote in the letter to her directly, then don't give her that letter. Better would be to be able to say what you wrote while giving her some thing. Plus - to tell someone you love them, I think before actually dating at least and kissing some is too soon to say that (maybe that's just me). You could say how you are attracted or she's your type or something that alludes to wanting to love her. Unless you aren't looking for a gf and just want to tell friend you love her, then that's a whole different story ( and probably not yours in this one)
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I guess what I’m trying to say is that I love you. And I love that I love you despite the fact that I never, ever thought that I would or could.
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"Trying" and "guessing" are not very reassuring words for telling someone you love them. Like, um, err, I think just maybe (and I'm just guessing) it might just be that I love you, kind of.
And also it almost seems like a put down "despite I though I never, ever would or could" - that puts red flags up.
Anyway, it would probably be better to write what you wrote without declaring love and maybe turn it all into a poem and also give her a tangiable gift with the poem. Chocolates and a poem would be cool. Or movie coupons that would mean you and her would use them together (hopefully).